tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post2479739302134742005..comments2024-03-23T03:33:32.680-07:00Comments on Shoot the Breeze: Love is BlindSGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05790347071764332430noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-20118581354747423262021-10-06T02:37:08.817-07:002021-10-06T02:37:08.817-07:00Away from kin, his mind took the advantage of the ...Away from kin, his mind took the advantage of the situation. had he been keeping the decency and decorum, he would have left the place giving a note to her parents. Otherwise, he would have been caught as a culprit,urging the girl to the wrong side. Well-penned,S.G. Nice.rudraprayagahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13775039913655864157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-9033639695711770082021-09-29T06:51:36.685-07:002021-09-29T06:51:36.685-07:00The cook definitely felt he was doing wrong & ...The cook definitely felt he was doing wrong & that he'd be judged- thus he was uncomfortable to share when your wife was around.<br />He knew that he is cheating his wife & family.<br /><br />After all we are Indians & will have such mentality- the cook also did.<br />But, some make use of the opportunity, putting the "right vs wrong" debate & conscience behind. It's all an individual's choice. Anita Sabathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13365472694082398017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-81168195838955516752021-09-24T08:13:10.961-07:002021-09-24T08:13:10.961-07:00Thanks for your comments Pradeep. You are correct...Thanks for your comments Pradeep. You are correct. Man-made morals are very subjective.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05790347071764332430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-82944084134745724892021-09-21T22:43:03.419-07:002021-09-21T22:43:03.419-07:00I found this quite interesting.
I am not surprised...I found this quite interesting.<br />I am not surprised, either.<br />Emotions and feelings are true to every human being.<br />They have no rules. <br />They are pure, unadulterated.<br />On the other hand, morals are made by us.<br />There is nothing absolute or pure about it.<br />Nor are they objective. They are subjective.<br />They are right and wrong depending upon our conveniences.<br />What is okay for one, is wrong for the other.<br />Hopefully all are well, hale and hearty!Pradeep Nairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04873369124947878452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-87753637915844165962021-09-19T09:39:46.442-07:002021-09-19T09:39:46.442-07:00Thanks for your comments Ajeya. I agree with you....Thanks for your comments Ajeya. I agree with you. He will have to choose himself and nobody can judge him. The mere fact he came to my home after 3 years and told me his affair with this girl ...means he wants my opinion. Otherwise, he could have very well not tell me anything about the girl. or never visit me.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05790347071764332430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-2120993171726018302021-09-19T05:28:25.149-07:002021-09-19T05:28:25.149-07:00Interesting. I liked that fact that he felt comfor...Interesting. I liked that fact that he felt comfortable to confide in you. He definetly trusted you. Isn't that the dichotomy of life - Betray others or Betray one's own feelings. Which is worse? It is a personal decision that we have to constantly keep making in life. He will have to choose for himself, like all of us. Therefore, no body can judge him, but himself. AJEYA RAOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15770471904480140472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-10811992305435937692021-09-18T08:39:36.786-07:002021-09-18T08:39:36.786-07:00Thanks for your comments Rajesh. Why he didn’t go...Thanks for your comments Rajesh. Why he didn’t go back to India? Most of the Indians in USA don’t want to go back to India after seeing the mighty USDollars and the exchange rate for Indian rupees. He was crying because his employer threatened with deportation.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05790347071764332430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-58371632547112040592021-09-18T00:38:11.046-07:002021-09-18T00:38:11.046-07:00Initially, you met him because he was not comforta...Initially, you met him because he was not comfortable in the US. When there was an opportunity to go back to India, why didn't he take it? There seems to be some inconsistency in his story. <br /><br />Besides, why cry for just losing a job? I don't have a good opinion of adults who cry. I mean, adults who feign tears. <br /><br />Destination Infinity Destination Infinityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17888747736092948085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-27250911060385065592021-09-17T21:30:09.109-07:002021-09-17T21:30:09.109-07:00Thanks for your comments Mr. KP. But there is a m...Thanks for your comments Mr. KP. But there is a moral obligation. If there is a robbery taking place, you cannot be a silent spectator.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05790347071764332430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-85265468432714407222021-09-17T20:53:30.424-07:002021-09-17T20:53:30.424-07:00Such strange things happen and are jarring to conv...Such strange things happen and are jarring to conventional values. But there is little that outsiders can do in such cases where both are consenting adults.KParthasarathihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02189924874350906456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-7708694339997664282021-09-17T08:52:42.821-07:002021-09-17T08:52:42.821-07:00OK. You win Dee. End of comments.OK. You win Dee. End of comments.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05790347071764332430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-77302358121348290722021-09-17T08:32:34.407-07:002021-09-17T08:32:34.407-07:00In this story SG u were neither related to the che...In this story SG u were neither related to the chef nor the daughter so truly no one asked for your opinion.... if it were your son or daughter feel free.....even then it's their lives you can only offer when asked for it.....we need to respect that.... again I never think someone else's problem is juicy.....didn't know you thought that way ....Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09382026076805025777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-37669666050537665102021-09-17T06:55:36.052-07:002021-09-17T06:55:36.052-07:00Thanks for your comments Dee. If it happens in so...Thanks for your comments Dee. If it happens in someone else’s home, it is all good “juicy” news to us. I can also ask so many questions like you asked. But I was thinking from the point of view of the girl’s parents. I have a daughter. And, you have a daughter. If it happens in our home, we will not be asking these questions like “did he ask your opinion” and “why judge him”. We will not be making statements like “they had their reasons” and “we are no one to judge”.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05790347071764332430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-10285559210694554782021-09-17T06:45:36.415-07:002021-09-17T06:45:36.415-07:00Thanks for your comments Gowri.Thanks for your comments Gowri.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05790347071764332430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-67292837523490555802021-09-17T02:58:07.035-07:002021-09-17T02:58:07.035-07:00SG now that I read it a second time....few questio...SG now that I read it a second time....few questions pop<br />1. Instead of jumping to give an advise did you ever ask before he met her if he was happy or be in touch to check on him<br />2. Did he ask for your thoughts/opinion?<br />3. Why judge him or her for their choices? Were they not adults when they made those choices...<br /> I feel this is what we all do in a regular basis when we already have enough going on in our lives we want to judge others for their decisions, actions..... do we as Indians ever question lord krishna why he had so many gopis, Radha who he loved and we pray to (he never married) and Rukhmini was his official wife....<br />Agreed he had a family back home, but his choices are his and maybe all he was needed was companionship and he was lonely...we don't know.....<br />They had their reasons to stay with each other.... sometimes all someone needs is love....and we are no one to judge why they did what they did...<br />Humans crave love and affection and this is what drives them close to other like minded souls......if we have nothing positive to offer.... we should just learn to be good listeners.....<br /><br />Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09382026076805025777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-16460905158776747892021-09-17T01:35:12.429-07:002021-09-17T01:35:12.429-07:00Yes. She has proved your caption is right. Love or...Yes. She has proved your caption is right. Love or lust is still a debatable one. What you advised him is 100% correct. GOWRISHANKARhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17293449320514836097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-32937389170917497402021-09-16T22:06:05.424-07:002021-09-16T22:06:05.424-07:00Thanks for your comments DeeThanks for your comments DeeSGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05790347071764332430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6636808797927234183.post-51699978965917999472021-09-16T21:54:22.923-07:002021-09-16T21:54:22.923-07:00Love knows no language, no barries no age....it ha...Love knows no language, no barries no age....it has no rules.... love is just love.....Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09382026076805025777noreply@blogger.com