This is not a movie review but my own thoughts
A friend suggested I see this Malayalam movie, The Great Indian
Kitchen. To put it mildly I was shocked
and stunned. Having lived my entire
adult life in USA, I could not believe this was happening in an educated family
in India.
Nimisha Sanjayan is a dancer and brought up in Bahrain. She gets into an arranged marriage with a
teacher in Kerala. Her in law home is a patriarchal
family. She tries very hard to adjust and
be submissive. But they test her patience.
Don’t want to give the end of the story.
The movie is directed by Jeo Baby.
The actress Nimisha Sanjayan did not just act. She becomes a real submissive housewife. She tries to adjust to their whims and fancies. But she can tolerate only so much.
She tolerates some of the disgusting things:
The husband and father in law eat and spit the waste all over
the dining table. She has to eat there
after men finished eating. But when they
go to a restaurant, the husband shows good table manners. The wife asks him about it. The husband gets made and ask her to apologize.
The father in law is a cunning character. He asks her not to cook rice in a gas
stove. He wants his rice cooked only in
fire. He does not like his clothes
washed in a washing machine. He asks the
daughter in law to wash his clothes by hand.
I don’t even want to go about her sufferings during her
monthly period time. She should be away
from everyone else. In fact, it was
suggested she should not sleep in a bed.
She should sleep on the floor.
The movie is not about the “great” Indian kitchen. It is about the Indian domestic slavery. It is about a wife who is a cook, cleaner,
and a sex slave.
Excellent movie.
Everyone should watch this. Orthodox
patriarchal families should learn a lesson.


